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dreamsreel
Jul 12, 2012, 03:38 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. There is a ten year difference. I am twenty two and he is thirty three. We still live with my mom. I have been wanting to move out the entire time we have been together. We always talk about it but nothing happens. I have began storing furniture and house furnishings for four years and running out of room. My boyfriend has his own contracting business and could make a lot of money if he made the right choices. He always seems to have no money, is very clingy and is sufficating. I am a full time student and only work one job now. I was working two but quit one because I feel like I am pulling his load. In the beginning of our relationship he broke up with me and slept with his ex. We had not had any sexual relations at that time and I ended up taking him back. He has spoken to other woman since then and once stated that if we were not together that there was other women. I have not seen anyone else or considered seeing anyone until now. I feel like I have given him everything about me and he has taken it for granted. I feel like I know what's going on but lack direction. We do tell each other that we love each other but sometimes I feel angry or unsure about it because of what he has shown me. Just needing some advice.

Homegirl 50
Jul 12, 2012, 03:51 PM
He is 33 employed and is living with you and your mom?
He is lazy. He has it pretty good. He left you and you took him back and says if you two were not together he'd have another woman. Let him!

You need to kick is butt out of your mother's house and find someone who is closer to your age and have some fun. This bum will suck the youth and life right out of you.