Sir, assalamualaikum. I am al rezwan bin parvez sunny. I am a student of mba class. I have a affair for last 6 years and I know her for last 10 years. We have accepted ourselves as husband and wife but not in-front of others. We just accepted one another and the witness is ALLAH. Is it a valid marriage?

Sir my next question is can I kiss my wife every where?
Can see kiss me so?
In every part of my body and her body.
Can I do sex with her in any manner except anul sex and sex in the time of periods of my wife.
Please answer me sir as soon as possible.
I have searched a lot in the net but those things did not satisfy me.
It will be a great help if you can describe it broadly.

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Walaikum Salam,

This marriage is not valid. Witness(2 Muslim male adult. Or 1 Muslim male adult and 2 Muslim female adult) is required in case of a valid marriage in Islam. So she is not your wife and you can not have sex with her. I advice you to marry her following Islamic rules if you want to keep a relationship with her and repent to allah for what you did in the past.