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jessee1900
Jul 9, 2012, 12:36 PM
Okay, so I have been best friends with this girl since we were in 1st grade... (im in high school now). I was dating this guy and she was always really supportive of us, but we broke up a few months ago, but we still hang out and we are best friends now. If this guy and I do hang out, we usually hang out in groups and my best friend is usually there. Here lately they have been hanging out and posting pictures together and all this stuff and its really bugging me. Last night we were to this concert and he kept hugging her and putting his arm around her, but it was more than usual so I thought maybe he was trying to make me jealous because I would look at me before he would do something. My friend told me last night she liked him and asked me if she could date him. I can't tell if he likes her, but I am nervous that they will date and I will lose both of them as my friends, but it really hurts that they would do that to me. I don't know how to handle it... please help me!
Thanks for reading it, I know its really long (:

_kamya25
Jan 28, 2013, 06:53 PM
The same thing is happening to me! But my advice to you is just keep living life try thinking about them not being and your life try making your circle bigger and finding new friends cause you might need them sometimes 2 talk 2 cause your best friend might be wit your ex boyfriend but honestly I think your ex boyfriend is just trying 2 make you jealous but don't show him that you are jealous cause that is just like showing a weakness and he is going 2 take it and run wit it so don't prove it to him always remember he can take you down l without a fight but he can take you down if he knows your weakness and the fight!