Hi.

From the past 2-3 years I have liked a girl. I have told the same to her many times, but I haven't proposed her anytime. From the first day she never told that she likes me or not, but we have been good friends.

As the days passed I was too much impressed with this girl, and a love kind of thing has started only from my side. I cannot propose her. Because she told that she has already engaged with someone. And want to marry that guy. I think that is somewhat lie. But it might be correct too. But sometimes I can feel that she too likes me and very much positive about me. Am I same guy who she is already engaged?

I don’t want to waste my time saying like and love, but I like her a lot. If she agrees, definitely I will marry her. I don't know what to do. Whether to tell her what I feel, or leave her from my thoughts as lover. It’s not kind of thing that I cannot live without her, but I want to live with her. (Different castes)

What to do?

Sounds like she's already engaged.

I do have to ask about this, and maybe it's just a language barrier, but it makes no sense.


am I same guy who she is already engaged.

Wouldn't you know if you were engaged to her?

Ask her directly and find out if she thinks marrying you is something she would consider. I doubt it seriously, since you are of different castes, and her parents might not go for it.

Geez you are not sure how much you like or love her yourself.