I'm currently dating and in love with my boyfriend of a decent time; however I find myself attracted to 99.9% women vs. men. Ive had gfs & bfs, but unfortunately more serious w/ males. I can only watch/get off to lesbian porn. Straight stuff makes me uncomfortable. I've always claimed myself as bisexual w/ a preference for women, but always questioned am I truly lesbian at heart?

Ive had gfs & bfs, but unfortunately more serious w/ males.

To me this says it all.

Why is it unfortunate that you've been more serious with males? That statement is very telling.


I can only watch/get off to lesbian porn. Straight stuff makes me uncomfortable.

This is another part of your post that says it all.

I don't think you're bi. I also don't think you're as into your boyfriend as you claim to be.

I've never once said "it's unfortunate that I'm with my husband", because I love him, and want to be with him.

Time to do some serious soul searching. Based on what you posted, you're a lesbian, you're not bi.

Good luck.