View Full Version : My boyfriend is being very controlling and jealous
LCSCO
Jul 6, 2012, 05:27 PM
I'm having some issues with my Boyfriend... We moved in together a few months ago and have been dating for almost a year.. everything was perfect in the beginning and now all of a sudden he is continuing to bring up my past.. I told him at the very beginning of our relationship about all of my ex boyfriends and who I've been with.. he did not care at all... now all of a sudden Hes mad that I have been with other men and particularly another race.. I feel like I have to constantly tell him that I don't care about my past and they don't matter that he does. We have slept with the same amount of people but because I'm younger he thinks I'm a "slut"... he did not put it in those words but I no that's what he meant.. He is being very insecure and jealous. He constantly asks questions about what me and my past boyfriend did. He gets mad because I refuse to say anything negative about my previous boyfriends... I just don't care enough to talk about any of them... I told him to leave and stay at his friends for a while.. any suggestions on what I should do?
Homegirl 50
Jul 6, 2012, 05:34 PM
Move out. This won't stop. It is who he is. No matter what you say or do, he will continue with the questioning which is really none of his business.
LCSCO
Jul 6, 2012, 05:39 PM
So I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months.. everything was perfect until now.. We moved in together at 4 months of dating, a little fast some may say but it felt right.. About 2 months ago I noticed he was looking through my phone... ALOT... when I asked him about it he denied it.. then later admitted to it.. I got over that issue.. then shortly after that he would CONSTANTLY bring up my past.. he wanted to know everything about me and my ex's and I would be honest and tell him and then he would get all pissed off and walk away... from the beginning I have been nothing but honest with him, I told him who I've been with and he was okay with it.. now its really bothering him that I've been with other guys and especially one in particular who is a different race.. he makes me feel bad about it when I know I shouldn't.. its causing a lot of problems in our relationship because I feel like I have to constantly tell him how much I love him and don't care about my past... its getting old.. he also got mad at me because I would not say anything negative about my previous boyfriends... I told him he had to leave and I'm not sure what to do at this point...