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lolitta1992
Jul 3, 2012, 02:06 PM
I moved from California to a small town in Ohio to be with him after he proposed to me ( We've in distance relationship for 2 years ) Every time he get angry , he start telling me bad and mean words. He yell at me and threaten to hit me. Now I move back to California and left my forniture !
He doesn't want to give it to me back ( couch , bed , dishes and other things ) I I gave him his ring back
He text me saying another girl is coming tonight and we going to enjoy your couch
I feeel so angry! All my stuff that rest there worth about more than 2000$ I was stupid ! I thought he was a good man and I got so excited for having my fairytale wedding
I can't go again to Ohio or file a claim because it will cost me a lot of money
Its been now 2 month ago and I getting more obsessed about him and getting his Facebook password ,I feel so depressed ! I can't eat or sleep

He hurted me a lot and I want him to suffer too

Homegirl 50
Jul 3, 2012, 04:59 PM
You need to get over it. The best revenge is to be happy. Do not read any text from him, do not look at his face book page, no communication from or to him at all. Take this as a horrible lesson learned and move on.

I wish
Jul 4, 2012, 12:47 PM
I really like Homegirl50's advice.

The best revenge is to find your own happiness. He's a tough part of your past and it's best that you learn from the past and move on.

Don't settle for less than you deserve going forward.

Look at it this way, the more time you waste thinking about him, the less time you have to be happy with yourself and with someone else.

So pick yourself up and start meeting new people and spend time with people who deserve your time, including friends and family.