I've just found out I'm pregnant. I already have a five year old and 14mths. It's come as a complete shock, I didn't want anymore. It's left me feeling totally confused and numb. Im not functioning at all at the moment. I found out very late with my first which drove me in to depression and PND, I fought long and hard with it. I made sure I didn't get me the next times round with my 2nd. I had an awful 2nd pregnancy with lead to so much pain with SPD, I was on crutches from 22weeks. The pain was awful I got every infection going and just felt totally awful 24/7

The point I'm trying to make is I'm struggling to decide what to do. I'm not sure I'm strong enough to do either or my body can take a round 3??

I guess so many whys', why did you not get your tubes tied at the last baby ?

What combination of at least two birth controls were you using ?

Have you meet with your doctor to discuss options and go over the health of the baby.

I guess so many whys', why did you not get your tubes tied at the last baby ?


They wouldn't because of my age I did ask. Just the pill I was using
Have you meet with your doctor to discuss options and go over the health of the baby.
Nope this is next week

Mummyoftwo, do you have a question for us?