Okay so just recently my boyfriend of 5yrs dumped me through text message. Let me got further into detail. So a year back we were having problems and we were on and off and I selfishly got intimate with another guy. I felt guilty about it so I told him immediately. I thought we were working through our problems into one day we got into an argument about one of the girls who were his friends that he spent way too much time with and I said I didn't trust him. So he walked out and got mad and started to be really cold towards me then one day he said he wanted to go on a break. He then later told me he cheated on me 2 yrs back with this girl and took her virginity. Okay let me get to the pint. So basically he wanted to be on a break and it was for 2 months and then one day I asked when will the break be over and he said he didn't want to drag me anymore and that he wanted the relationship to be over. He then said he will come back to me one day and that we need to focus on our future come to find out he just wanted to have sex with other people. I'm not over him and I love him so much but I want to move on because the pain hurts too bad. I don't ever know what to do. It's only been two weeks since we ended and I'm just hurt. He's living it up and I'm breaking down into tears at home. What do I do?

This is a hard situation, I know because I have been there myself. And to tell you the truth you need to let it go. You two have broken each others trust. Once the trust is gone you can never get it back. Me and my ex just recently broke up for the same reasons 2 months ago. We dated for 4 years, a year back we went through a tough time, mestakes were made, and no matter how hard we tried we could never learn to trust each other again. Trust is hard earned and easily broken, and like glass its often better to sweep that away then hurt yourself trying to put it back together again. You will hurt, a lot. But you will feel better. In the end this is for the best.

PS: he's probily hurting just as much as you, he just doesn't want to show you that.