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A1exandr3
Jun 28, 2012, 12:12 PM
Hello...
This is my first topic, and I feel ashamed by question like that,
"How I can find a family to get adopt in us?"
Life is "socks!" here,
I am a legal immigrant resident in Saudi Arabia,
I'm original from AF, almost all of you know's how it AF right now,
Does anyone know a Foundation, Company, somebody, someone, somewhere, something, anything can help, to find a nice Family even if they are nut rich I don't care, all I want is Living in us, "that place your dreams come true,"
So please if there is any kind of Help. I will appreciate your kindness.
I know that you would do what you can to help, and I am really appreciate that mr/mis, and I am really sorry if I disturbed you by asking too much.
Thanks anyway...
Fr_Chuck
Jun 28, 2012, 12:22 PM
How old are you, most families do not normally want to adopt older teens, Where is your parents and what do they think about having someone adopt you
A1exandr3
Jun 28, 2012, 12:40 PM
Dude, you make me feel sad when you mention "most families do not normally want to adopt older teens"
I am 20 years old.
The reason Why! I asked a shamed question like that,
Because the ***** Saudi government they don't care about us they don't give us our rights they never will. There is no Equality between the Saudi and foreign like us
And my parents they have no problem with that, to let their son get adopted.
joypulv
Jun 28, 2012, 01:53 PM
Since you are 20, perhaps look for a wife. I don't think anyone wants a 20 year old just hanging around as a dependent child, sorry. I understand (or maybe I don't very well) that you say you are not treated like a Saudi, but you do need a skill, a trade, a career, some work experience. Do you have any?
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 07:40 AM
Joypuly! Perhaps you'r right about that, "find a wife".
About who's that girl or women like's to marry a guy from AF living in SA it's a complicated, if you know what I mean.
I worked a couple years in restaurant as a waiter, and now I work in at office they pay me only 1200 Sr, do you believe that is a 320 dollars in a month what a **** is that, I know there is some people they don't get paid more then I get, here in SA. Shame on the government of SA.
I have some exp on computers, networking, little stuff's like that I can't tell you that I'am Pro, but I am better then nothing.
I can be a Joiner I am really good with hammers & Nails :)
All I wish from god is one day I will become one of american people.
I wish if there is someone help's for humanity "I will give hem a world of THANKS never end's".
And GOD bless america.
Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2012, 07:43 AM
If I understand correctly, you want to be adopted by someone in the US so you can come to and live in this country?
What is AF? Afghanistan?
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 08:00 AM
If I understand correctly, you want to be adopted by someone in the US so you can come to and live in this country?
What is AF? Afghanistan?
Yep!
joypulv
Jun 29, 2012, 08:10 AM
You speak and write English, a good start. How many other languages?
Do you have a Facebook account? Put some pictures on and some information about yourself.
Keep in mind that although the US welcomes the world, she doesn't always make it easy, especially during a recession. And once you get here it isn't easy either. The streets aren't paved with gold except the ones you see on TV, thousands of miles apart from each other, and not accessible by you and me.
Fr_Chuck
Jun 29, 2012, 08:29 AM
Yes, I don't see an adoption happening, worst I see you a victim of a scam of someone trying to lie to you. You find a job in another country and move, You find someone to help you immigrte to another nation.
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 08:37 AM
I know Arabic, Persian, Uzbeks, and a little Turkish.
Yes! I have FB account,
I know that life isn't easy anywhere but somewhere's is better then other place's,
Here in SA I can't open a shop carries my name, its most carry some Saudi name, and I can't work anywhere I want except for who is Sponsor to work under he's name. And people of SA they are the same mankind of all other country's, there is good people and bad people anywhere, what I mean is I don't hate the people of SA they are nice people but the gov is the problem nut the people. If the gov don't give us a s***, what people can do?
About the ( The streets aren't paved with gold except the ones you see on TV, thousands of miles apart from each other, and not accessible by you and me. ) I am nut that person who think's about US like that (streets paved by gold) Ha! :D
Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2012, 08:39 AM
What about applying to a US university as a foreign student and getting a visa for that?
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 08:47 AM
Some times I feel, I do nut belong to those people or this country!
All mankind belong to be a Freeman, with the Freedom you will enjoy your life,
And rise a Powerful civilization nut to start a War, to stop the war and stop fighting with others.
The freedom in SA is dead!
Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2012, 08:52 AM
First spelling lesson for you -- not, not nut.
So what about attending a university in the US?
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 09:06 AM
Dude! This is will be a long story to tell,
When I came to SA I was 4 years old, my dad when he wanted to register my name in a school they said to hem we do not accept foreign, and I student in a Persian school beside Arabic and some Turkish class's, the school was good and nice all my colleagues in the school was like me there was no Saudi kid student with us, I was fourth in the school, after a few years I register'd myself in Saudi school for 3 years and, I was the first among them, but with out Certificate!
And now they allow applying to a US university as a foreign student only for who got the Certificate of Distinction and Only for the Saudis!ز
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 09:10 AM
I know my English its not that Good!
Nut not all the same to me :D
I didn't get English course or something like that, I learn'd it from watching movies and TV shows that's all .
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 09:33 AM
"Wondergirl" do you think you can find me a job in any kind campany as a worker?
Because I think I am to old for become a student!
Any advice from you can help's my situation!
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2012, 09:52 AM
If you have learned English from movies and television, you have done a very good job!
I do not know about companies that would hire you. What very special skills do you have that a US company would want? So many of our own people are out of work already, so companies would not hire a foreigner unless he is very, very special.
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 09:57 AM
If you have learned English from movies and television, you have done a very good job!
I do not know about companies that would hire you. What very special skills do you have that a US company would want? So many of our own people are out of work already, so companies would not hire a foreigner unless he is very, very special.
Oh dam* lucky me.
I prefer to find another way like "joypulv" said before (look for a wife).
But I wish I know some one in US.
Like I said Lucky me :(
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 10:09 AM
What about if I found a women who she will marry me on papers not really.
And I will pay her who much she want, to let me get the US visa, and after I get there I'll pay her what was agreed before! And she get her divorce paper. After I get the Permanent residence in US.
Is that's will work ?
Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2012, 10:13 AM
what about if i found a women who she will marry me on papers not really.
and i will pay her who much she want, to let me get the US visa, and after i get there i'll pay her what was agreed before! and she get her divorce paper. after i get the Permanent residence in US.
is that's will work ?
That's illegal here and she will go to jail. (and you will be deported)
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 10:22 AM
Ha! What I supposed to do then ?
Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2012, 10:24 AM
How old are you?
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 10:30 AM
I think 20 !
My birth date is oct/27/1991
Bot in the passport I am 1 year younger, means in passport my birth date is 1992
Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2012, 10:32 AM
You're not too old for university. How far did you go in school? College?
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 10:52 AM
You're not too old for university. How far did you go in school? college?
When I came to SA I was 4 years old, my dad when he wanted to register my name in a Saudi school they said to hem we do not accept foreign, and then I student in a Persian school beside Arabic and some Turkish class's, the school was good and nice all my colleagues in the school was like me there was no Saudi kids student with us, I was fourth in the school, after a few years I register'd myself in Saudi school for 3 years, and I was the first among them, but with out Certificate!
And now they allow applying to a US university as a foreign student only for who got the Certificate of Distinction and Only for the Saudis!
A1exandr3
Jun 29, 2012, 10:56 AM
I don't know the word, I student in Persian school 7 years and Arabic school 3 years.
My Arabic language is better then my original language, I mean Uzbeks language.
When I say Persian school I mention Afghan school in SA bot without Approved certificate.
A1exandr3
Jun 30, 2012, 02:30 AM
So please...
Anyone could help, even it is illegally way I don't care!
Bot I prefer Legally way, if there was a chance to choose. :)
Fr_Chuck
Jun 30, 2012, 08:30 AM
No, if you completed your school there, you may come to the US and study in college here without Certificate, you just need to have completed and passed. The worst student as long as they passed can come to US school
What school you can get into may depend on your grades
A1exandr3
Jun 30, 2012, 11:16 AM
All right then,
I have to finish my school first, Ha!
I think that I have'a better chance if I complete my study in my country AF.
Because here in SA even if I passed they won't let me leave with peace, They always accuse me by something, I didn't do it and I don't deserve that..
Its to hard to live in AF, after I was far away from my country for 15 years maybe.
Omg! What a day, what a life.
A1exandr3
Jun 30, 2012, 11:19 AM
No, if you completed your school there, you may come to the US and study in college here without Certificate, you just need to have completed and passed. the worst student as long as they passed can come to US school
What school you can get into may depend on your grades
Thank You for Giving Me Your Valuable Time.
Sir or mam?
A1exandr3
Jun 30, 2012, 11:48 AM
By the way, about the adopting idea if I can find a Family consisting of a couple I will find a job and I will work no matter what kind of work and help them far as I can and do my best to make them Comfortable about their home and their life, I will be their son, and Respect them as they are my real parents and more. Because they will be my family. And I will carry their last name. Oh god that makes me cry.
Please if you can do a favor for me if you heard someone he want's to adopt a someone's from outside of US, just tell them about me and let them think. You don't have to force them. Just let them think how a man's life will change with a simple decision.
Wondergirl
Jun 30, 2012, 12:18 PM
What you should do is find a church body or group who will sponsor you as a new immigrant. They will find housing for you, help you find a job, teach you English, answer questions about life in this country, etc. I can't think of a group that does this right now, although it was very popular during the Vietnam Conflict, with churches helping families as they moved to this country. Let me do some research and get back to you.
A1exandr3
Jun 30, 2012, 01:59 PM
Roger that.
Wondergirl
Jul 9, 2012, 06:50 AM
I've called several libraries, churches, charities, but have found no group that is interested in helping anyone but the most needy and desperate, especially victims of natural disasters. The only group that might be worth contacting is this one: World Relief - Welcome (http://worldrelief.org/). Catholic Charities might be another possibility.