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kevin sole
Jun 25, 2012, 11:40 AM
How can I get my daughter back they are corrupt
And get away with everything
JudyKayTee
Jun 25, 2012, 11:42 AM
Who is "they"?
Has she been adopted or is the adoption still going through the Courts?
kevin sole
Jun 25, 2012, 01:28 PM
How can I get my daughter back from the corrupt social workers my daughter is being adopted third week and they never told Mr
JudyKayTee
Jun 25, 2012, 01:40 PM
If I understand you - and I need to understand the situation - your daughter is in the care of Child Protective Services, some other child protection service AND she is being adopted but you didn't give your consent. Am I right? Is this in the US?
kevin sole
Jun 25, 2012, 01:43 PM
Who is "they"?
Has she been adopted or is the adoption still going through the Courts?
She is being adopted in the week I wasn't told
ScottGem
Jun 25, 2012, 01:47 PM
Kevin,
If you want us to help you, you need to give us information. Use the Reply button to answer the questions and tell us WHO has your daughter, WHY they have your daughter, WHY she is being put up for adoption, where (general location) that you live. And any other details that might help us help you.
But without info we can't help you.
kevin sole
Jun 25, 2012, 01:51 PM
If I understand you - and I need to understand the situation - your daughter is in the care of Child Protective Services, some other child protection service AND she is being adopted but you didn't give your consent. Am I right? Is this in the US?
No in unbridled wells in the UK
ScottGem
Jun 25, 2012, 01:55 PM
Ok, that's part of what we need, but you need to stop typing in short incomplete sentences. Tell us your story so we can help.
Do you have a solicitor?
kevin sole
Jun 25, 2012, 02:07 PM
Tunbridge wells social services took her in Feb 2011because of my partners mental health and I was an alcoholic they never gave us a chance and I hardly got any contact she is now1month's old there has been 5social workers and they have all left now they are corrupt and liers I want her back I love her so much this is all wrong
JudyKayTee
Jun 25, 2012, 02:07 PM
I'd LOVE to help - but I need to know the background. Is she in foster care, something else?
Where is her mother?
kevin sole
Jun 25, 2012, 02:23 PM
She is in sevenoaks in Kent with foster parents an her mum is in rusthall in Kent we have separated over all this we should be given a chance they said about neglect emotional and physical abuse but how can they say that when they never gave us a chance as soon as my daughter has gone the social worker is leaving like all the others
ScottGem
Jun 25, 2012, 03:25 PM
Ok, first, you don't need to post real names. We will only have to remove them.
You will need to get a solicitor to fight this in any way. The first thing you will need to do is file an injunction to prevent the adoption from being finalized until you can present your case.
Then you will need to prove that you have remained sober for a significant period, You will have to show that you can care for your daughter. You will have do whatever the social workers say you have to to prove you can be a good father,
And you need to stop railing against the social workers and calling them corrupt. Unless you have specific proof of corruption it is not going to help you. Lets face it, you are an alcoholic and your partner has mental health issues. Not the most attractive of parental prospects. You have an uphill battle facing you and there is a good possibility you will lose it.
So you need a solicitor and do exactly what they tell you to do to have any hope.