He just left us and moved in with another woman, my son is 15 months at first he was there at every doctors appointment, he cooked, cleaned, walked with me.

He was there and supportive after my six month he left one day and never came back. I found out he had moved in with another woman and her kids.

Basically he ended up going to jail, getting out and coming back and helping I do admit I shouldn't have took him back then again I have took him back two other times prior to that.

But it was my first child and I wanted both parents there.

So now a few months after him being out he has found another woman and her kids and he took off on me again this time we were not together but he hasn't reached out to me regarding our son offered to help me sent any money or anything.

Last time I seen him was April 7th on my son's birthday.

He came from St.Louis for two weeks for my son't birthday and Easter and his fam bought are son lots of things for his birthday.
We have been on and off for over 7years. He has 2 other children here in the same city with me.
The woman he currently stays with took him in when he didn't have a place to stay, and now he is seeing her and decided to just stay in ST. Louis instead of coming back to Kansas City Mo were his 3 children reside.

He doesn't work no car and I have reason to believe he may just be in St.Louis doing what he wants to do.

I need to have an address for him in order for the state to be able to move the child support smoothly we have already legally established paternity.

He just kind of acts as if he doesn't even have a care in the word about his own child considering I haven't heard from him in over a month.

He is on parole I have his parole officer's name address and phone number will the state be able to find him through his probation officer.

Does anyone no any men so shallow just turn there back on their own child. And do you think he will change and want to be in his child's life or will he never reach out to us again??

If it helps he normally gets by off other people.

Yes, thousands of women go through this. You are not alone. Probably dozens right in a 10 block area where you live.
Will he ever want to be back in their lives? You know we don't know the answer to that, but basically it's 50/50, right? He will or he won't. If he goes where someone can support him, I suspect he won't. It almost sounds like he didn't have a way home to you after getting out of jail and found the closest person who would take him in? (Let's see how long that works.)
The court should be able to find him through his PO, assuming he doesn't violate parole and take off.