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waterxangel
Jun 17, 2012, 12:58 AM
So my best friend keeps talking to my ex boyfriend who is and was also best friends with her before we started dating. I can't help but think that he likes her or that she likes him. He visits her at work and buys her food and drinks and they text and talk on the phone occasionally. They also call each other bests and he has a sticker picture of her on his phone case. He also writes hearts to her on comments like "best <3 <3" Do you think he likes her? Or that she likes him? My best friend does have a boyfriend but I feel like she's being overly friendly with my ex boyfriend. People say that I should keep away from her but I don't think I can because she is my best friend. My other friend that she doesn't get the vibe that she thinks they're together but I really can't tell. What should I do? Is it just me or does it seem like they like each other?

Cintagirl_25
Jun 17, 2012, 03:05 AM
Personally when someone is getting involved with someone else I think the best thing is to stay out of it. You don't want to be in the middle of something that may jeopardize your friendship. If it's something they are doing then in the end it's up to them. If this upsets you then have a conversation with your friend explaining how you feel. But don't attack her saying "you are such and such or your doing this" instead say "I feel hurt when you text him or I feel upset" etc focus on yourself so your not attacking her. In the end though I would personally keep out of it as you don't want to be the person that causes trouble. In the end you want to be the better person then your friend regardless what happens.

waterxangel
Jun 17, 2012, 05:18 PM
I am trying to stay away from it but is it okay for my friend to even be talking to him? The whole best thing is really annoying to me.