I have been with my boyfriend for 14 years and have just married, since then our marriage just seems to be getting worse. Ww seem to argue about every word that is said or I should say he barks at everything I have an opinion on. Things were OK until an old frien slash girlfriend came to vist us He use to tell she was friends with benifets.

How can I tell if he wishes we never married me and if he is wishing he was with someone else

How can I tell if he wishes we never married me and if he is wishing he was with someone else

I think you had better ask him.

If you were together for 14 years things did not just turn bad, where you expecting them to get better when you got married perhaps ?

IF you can not just sit down and discuss these issues with him, then communication is your real issue and counseling may help.