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Scryo117
Jun 13, 2012, 09:59 PM
School let out last week and my girlfriend left for a week long vacation. The day she left she didn't answer my texts... so I gave her some space. I tried again once every day she gets back tomorrow but then I leave for a week!!

Homegirl 50
Jun 13, 2012, 10:20 PM
Did you two have a fight or something before she left?
Only she can give you an explanation.

Scryo117
Jun 13, 2012, 10:33 PM
Did you two have a fight or something before she left?
Only she can give you an explanation.
We didn't have a fight or anything. It's just that she got out of an abusive relationship and was contemplating suicide... probably should have said that in the description.

Homegirl 50
Jun 13, 2012, 10:36 PM
So you are the rebound boyfriend.
Only she can tell you what's up. Maybe she just wants to be alone.
Was she traveling with her parents?

Scryo117
Jun 13, 2012, 11:19 PM
So you are the rebound boyfriend.
Only she can tell you what's up. Maybe she just wants to be alone.
Was she traveling with her parents?
No

Scryo117
Jun 13, 2012, 11:26 PM
No
No she isn't with her parents she is with her 24 year old cousin they aren't very close... I love my girlfriend and she loves me we have a bond but she shuts me out some times I know I must give her room but I desperately want to help her and this whole thing is tearing me apart inside but she doesn't even answer me(sorry for no periods really got into it)

Homegirl 50
Jun 14, 2012, 07:13 AM
Then maybe you need to talk to her when you get back. Stop trying to call her, and then tell her you cannot continue in the relationship the way she shuts you out.
Maybe when you are healed from this you two can be friends. Maybe dating was not the right thing for you two.