View Full Version : Hitter and quitter
crazy girl
Jun 13, 2012, 04:48 PM
Ok I have no idea what 2 do because my boyfriend and I had sex but we were scared that I might end up pregnant which I still haven't found out but he hasn't texted me in like 2 days which is really weird because he's the kind of guy that always texts you so I'm afraid that he mightive left me and the worst part is that we don't go to the same school I need help if I'm pregnant I can't deal with a baby I'm burely 14 and if I'm not I still want 2 know if he left me because we haven't broken up he just doesn't text back at all I'm really worried help!!
Homegirl 50
Jun 13, 2012, 04:57 PM
Well first you need to find out if you are pregnant or not. If you are, your parents need to be told as does this guys parents. How old is he?
Of you are not, then you leave this boy and sex alone until you are older and can handle the responsibility of pregnancy.
Fr_Chuck
Jun 13, 2012, 05:15 PM
Yes this often happens, esp if he is a older boy, they try to date young girls till they have sex with them and then they have "scored" they move to a new one.
If a relationship is based on just sex they never last.
Homegirl 50
Jun 13, 2012, 05:19 PM
He may have gotten what he wanted and is now no longer interested.
How old is this guy?
idkmybffjill
Jun 17, 2012, 03:40 PM
It's probably too late now, but please learn what Plan B is!
purplezebra
Jun 19, 2012, 01:55 PM
Not to be mean, but you were pretty stupid to even be having sex with him at that age. It's too young to understand the responsibilities, which is obvious because you think you might be pregnant.
If you haven't already taken a pregnancy test, you need to do that immediately. If it's positive, you need to tell your parents and boyfriend immediately.
And lastly, yes, it sounds like he's hitting and quitting. I'm guessing you had sex with him before you've been dating him for at least six months, which a really bad idea, especially at your age.