Kenny33
Jun 11, 2012, 05:16 PM
Hi,
Im at my wits end, I'm a 33 year old mother of 4. & am with my current partner for almost 5 years who is father to my youngest 2 year old son. When I net him he had recently got out of prison, as we were not from the same area we talked & texted a lot, I foolishly fell head over heels in love with him, we eventually met & had brilliant weekend, as the weeks went on I found out he was using heroin & addicted to it, this went on for a nearly a year & I stood by him disappointed & heartbroken @ every broken promise, again I foolishly fell pregnant to him & in fairness to him true to his word he finally decided to move in & go cold turkey in my house. This was horrible ti watch but he got there, my fear is he used drink every single night since I've met him, honestly not 1 night has gone by without him drinking, my fears first began when I was pregnant & kept wondering how the he'll would I get to hospital if I went into labour, luckily I was sent in from my last appointment @ antenatal clinic, I went into labour that night & was ringing & ringing his phone him to drunk to hear it, he did eventually turn up stinking of drink & from here on in my fears continued & still continue to thus day,
I often say to him he has a drink problem, to which his he's doing no harm to anyone or not violent which is true but when I confront him he sure does have a nasty streak & usually I don't get a word in edgeways as he just doesn't want to listen, he is a 42 year old man, with not. So much as a driving licence before he came here, I have helped him out so much since he moved here but get nothing in return I'm the 1 working & when come back from work nothing in house will be done & toddler barely changed, I know the answer to this myself but really like advice thank you :-)
Im at my wits end, I'm a 33 year old mother of 4. & am with my current partner for almost 5 years who is father to my youngest 2 year old son. When I net him he had recently got out of prison, as we were not from the same area we talked & texted a lot, I foolishly fell head over heels in love with him, we eventually met & had brilliant weekend, as the weeks went on I found out he was using heroin & addicted to it, this went on for a nearly a year & I stood by him disappointed & heartbroken @ every broken promise, again I foolishly fell pregnant to him & in fairness to him true to his word he finally decided to move in & go cold turkey in my house. This was horrible ti watch but he got there, my fear is he used drink every single night since I've met him, honestly not 1 night has gone by without him drinking, my fears first began when I was pregnant & kept wondering how the he'll would I get to hospital if I went into labour, luckily I was sent in from my last appointment @ antenatal clinic, I went into labour that night & was ringing & ringing his phone him to drunk to hear it, he did eventually turn up stinking of drink & from here on in my fears continued & still continue to thus day,
I often say to him he has a drink problem, to which his he's doing no harm to anyone or not violent which is true but when I confront him he sure does have a nasty streak & usually I don't get a word in edgeways as he just doesn't want to listen, he is a 42 year old man, with not. So much as a driving licence before he came here, I have helped him out so much since he moved here but get nothing in return I'm the 1 working & when come back from work nothing in house will be done & toddler barely changed, I know the answer to this myself but really like advice thank you :-)