I have been in a relationship with a stunning girl for just over 6months,from the start I knew she was going to be leaving to work in America but we fell so in love it didn't matter,we decided to stay together and make a real go of the long distance relationship and she is gone a month already and things were great until couple days ago when I mentioned us getting on so great and possibly having a real future together I got a "im just taking this every day as it comes " reply... that's what I don't understand she tells me everyday how much she loves me and so do I... it really confused me because all the time it was talk of us being together for good... could really do with some advice please...

If she is currently trying to adjust to a new job, in a new country, that is plenty to have on her plate right now.

I'm thinking that 8 months is far too soon to commit to a future together, especially under these circumstances.

While life has changed so drastically for her, try to not bring up the future, and instead, do as she is doing, which is taking it one day at a time.

Realize too that long distance relationships even with couples who have been married for many years, are very difficult to maintain. A new relationship for you, that is now a long distance one, may be even more difficult.

Excellent mate, really appreciate that... very true too