I have not seen my boyfriend physically for over two months though we sometimes speak on phone. Even though I do well answer all his calls and reply to his text messages he hardly answers my calls or return my missed calls. Hardly does he respond to my texts too. When I drew his attention to it, he said I should know him by now that, that is how he is. He says he is busy with work. I have seen him physically only 4 times this whole year, though we both live in the same town.

When I request to visit him too he mostly declines. Yet when I asked whether he is busy 24/7 he said no. he hardly contacts me during weekends. He will only wish me a nice week on Monday. The last time I told him I have not seen him close to three months now he retorted that what if he had traveled outside the country.

When I asked him when I would see him next he got angry hasn't called since. Is he really into me? I need help. What should I do?

Let go, why make someone a priority in your life, when you're only an option in there's. You live in the same town and only seen him physically 4 times? That's no way to have a relationship. Seems to me like you need to move on.

It is obvious he does not value your relationship, so you have not went over to surprise him since you miss him? You live in the same town, no reason to be that long at all.

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Who puts up with this kind of treatment? Disappear from his life and if you ever see or hear from him... REJECT HIM TOTALLY!!

When you allow bad treatment you get more of it! He just ain't that into you, take the hint!! Know when to walk away, know when to run. This is the time to RUN!!