We're ex-coworkers, who still works for the same company, but different stores. He use to like me back in January, and we went out once and that lead to a month of silent treatment. I've started to catch feelings for him at the end of February, mainly because I've missed our friendships. Fortunately, things started to work out as we started texting again. We've planned to hang out and that lead to us being bf/gf.

After finally having him under my wings, a lot has happened. We tried having sex (lost it to him), and there was the good and the bad. He would always fail to get in me. It could've been my fault because I was too "tight"... and it was very very frustrating for him. He even said "I'm disappointed in myself" after trying. For me, I was mostly calm... though I did get a bit tense whenever he would try to ejaculate. He also asked If I could give him a blowjob but I said no... every time, he would get a bit bummed out but it wasn't a big deal because he didn't lash out about it. We've only been doing this for only 2 nights. Besides the sex, we were a great couple.

Our conversations are never awkward, and we're both very affectionate and we would text all the time. Until that last (second) night where sex wasn't successful, and after departing with him that morning... that was when everything just went wrong. When I got back to my house, I would send him a text but he would never reply. So I was just waiting and waiting. I've been sending him text after text and he would still not reply. I called him one night, and he picked up and there was bad reception. Since he lives in the basement of his two story apartment, that could've been a sign. But I remember still getting messages when I stayed down there. He said he don't get some of my texts and it's fishy because I'm sure he has gotten at least one of them.

The biggest problem is just how he's not checking up on me at all. Never a text from him asking how I am or anything, since that day. I am really sad and frustrated. Basically going through depression, this whole day I stayed at home just checking my phone 24/7... It's the worst feeling. I'm also nearly in love with him. What could've went wrong?

Also we've been going out for a month and a half... I don't even know If this is a relationship anymore since he's not communicating with me. What should I do? I feel like I'm just bothering him a whole lot with a load of text messages that he might have seen or not...

We're ex-coworkers, who still works for the same company (american apparel) but different stores. He use to like me back in January, and we went out once and that lead to a month of silent treatment. I've started to catch feelings for him at the end of February, mainly because I've missed our friendships. Fortunately, things started to work out as we started texting again. We've planned to hang out and that lead to us being bf/gf. After finally having him under my wings, a lot has happened. We tried having sex (lost it to him), and there was the good and the bad. He would always fail to get in me. It could've been my fault because I was too "tight"...and it was very very frustrating for him. He even said "I'm disappointed in myself" after trying. For me, I was mostly calm...though I did get a bit tense whenever he would try to ejaculate. He also asked If I could give him a blowjob but I said no...every time, he would get a bit bummed out but it wasn't a big deal because he didn't lash out about it. We've only been doing this for only 2 nights. Besides the sex, we were a great couple. Our conversations are never awkward, and we're both very affectionate and we would text all the time. Until that last (second) night where sex wasn't successful, and after departing with him that morning...that was when everything just went wrong. When I got back to my house, I would send him a text but he would never reply. So I was just waiting and waiting. I've been sending him text after text and he would still not reply. I called him one night, and he picked up and there was bad reception. Since he lives in the basement of his two story apartment, that could've been a sign. But I remember still getting messages when I stayed down there. He said he dont get some of my texts and it's fishy because Im sure he has gottened atleast one of them. The biggest problem is just how he's not checking up on me at all. Never a text from him asking how I am or anything, since that day. I am really sad and frustrated. Basically going through depression, this whole day I stayed at home just checking my phone 24/7...It's the worst feeling. I'm also nearly in love with him. What could've went wrong?!

Also we've been going out for a month and a half...I don't even know If this is a relationship anymore since he's not communicating with me. What should I do? I feel like I'm just bothering him a whole lot with a load of text messages that he might've seen or not...

I am sorry your going through that no one deserve that. My ex use to do the samething, if he wants to be fake then you need 2 move on and focus on yourself no man need to control your mood take sometime and go shopping or spend time with family good luck

You never stay home 24/7 waiting for a text or call, or blow his phone up. Stop that and get on with your regular routine. Let him lick his wounded ego, and don't wonder if you are in a relationship, because you are not. It was an unsuccessful month long dating experiment.

Too much, too fast, crash and burn.

You are better as friends than partners, and I question that. How old are you both? What was your hurry? Come on, a month and a half??