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louise1928
Jun 2, 2012, 08:14 AM
My friend Holly page Had an argument with her best friend Zoe about 1 and a half years ago. From then on they have hated each other, they made new friends they each had there own friendship groups. Until one day My other friend Caymen who was also friends with Zoe moved friendship groups and made friends with Holly's friendship group. Then Holly had to go in for an operation because she had a hernia. While Holly was away, recovering from her operation Zoe started slipping away from her friendship group (which was also mine) and into Holly's. Zoe became quite good friends with them and left me with my old friendship group who had quite frankly shrunk and become boring. While Holly was still away shortly to be returning, asked me to pretend to be upset that Zoe had moved friendship groups and left me on my own. So then I told her I wouldn't do it and told Zoe and the rest of her friendship group what she had asked me to do. Me and Holly had a massive argument over the phone.

The last couple of days before holly returned I became friends with their friendship group which shortly became mine too. For a while after Holly returned Zoe and Holly got on they still weren't friends just acquittance's and I had made up with Holly all was good. But that didn't last long. One of the girls in our friendship group Chloe, Decided one day she hated Holly and text her to off. Holly found this weird and asked her what was wrong? This led into an argument between them they then hated each other. This led to further conflict Zoe obviously took Chloe's side. Jessy another girl in the group took Holly's side.

This was the beginning of the split in the friendship group. Caymen,Zoe,and Chloe used to leave our group ten mintes into our lunch break and say "where just going to see Kc" (Chloe's boyfriend). Then they just stopped coming at all.
Now and again Zoe used to come over but not anymore. Soon Chloe started to drag Hatti out of our group who after a while stopped coming back too.

One day, Jessy told Holly she hated them all including Hatti whom she had been best friends with since they where 4. One day, Hatti actually came over and sat next to Jessy. Jessy was shocked but kept talking to Hatti a if she'd never left. Then suddenly Holly got up and left. Jessy asked her why she was leaving she said "why do you think?" and gave Hatti the daggers. She then stormed of and burst into tears!

That night Holly's friend Maddy who new about the whole situation started to phone Hatti. The next day Hatti,Chloe,Zoe,Chloe and another girl Beth, came and confronted Holly as to why she had phoned Hatti 20 times. She said "that wasn't me it was friend" Somehow this lead to an argument between Chloe and Holly, Chloe started walking over holly and gave her a kick not intending to hurt her just to get a point across. Holly went to pastrol with bruises up her legs and told them what had happned. This got chloe not the best of records since there had been other minor situations involving her and holly before. The same with Zoe and Holly.

There I another Girl who was once best friends with Zoe. Jaydee, she knew Zoe since they where two they hadn't always been friends but they hated each other too. They had a massive argument a few days ago because she had been messaging a girl in her class saying "No wonder her mum and dad don't live together she's so fat she couldn't fit. (she's not fat by the way) They rowed Jaydee at the top of the stairs and Zoe at the top. Jaydee and holly are good friends so that's why she was so angry with Zoe.

Later that day when I had already left, Zoe and holly broke out into a physical fight and Holly is saying Zoe pushed her into a brick wall and Holly only gave her shove to get her off. Pastrol don't believe Zoe when she says she didn't push her into a brick wall, I don't know if she did or not but I heard Jaydee saying that she has good news but Mr. Doyle the Pastrol leader said she can't tell anyone and holly knows what it is too. I think this means Zoe's getting expelled and I won't have that weather she did or didn't push holly into a wall Zoe's a good person really I have known her a long time and I know she would never intentionally hurt anyone. Mr. Doyle thinks Zoe is bullying holly and he used to be a governor and said all children who are bully's will be thrown out don't worry holly I was there for that.

Sorry if this was very long but I thought you should know the facts.

Homegirl 50
Jun 2, 2012, 08:29 AM
So what's the question?
This all sounds like middle school she said /she said stuff. In the future all of this will seem irrelevant. Zoe seems to be in the middle of an awful lot of mess. This is something she will have to deal with. You don't even know if she started it yourself, so again What's the question?