UndefinedLoyal
Jun 1, 2012, 11:26 PM
Hi!
I told my boyfriend that if he did not start getting his stuff together, I will kick him out. We have a baby, 11 months old, and he told me that if I left him- he would take him with him when he goes. He has NO stable place to stay, His father has NEVER met our child, and I don't want him to because of his anger issues. My boyfriend would more than likely go there- but he has no crib for him, no food, no nothing. My family paid for everything for him.
Can he legally take him? His name is on the birth certificate, but our son has been living with us in the same house since he was born. Wouldn't taking him from the place he feels safe and secure cause emotional damage? His father is hardly around (He currently has a job) and when he is he pays NO attention to him whatsoever. I do the feeding, diapers, play time, baths, put him to bed, get up with him every morning, every thing. His father stays up till 6am looking at pictures/games on his phone, watching TV, or playing video games, and NEVER wakes up when our son cries. He has severe anger issues, and when he is angry he drives WAY too fast, he has almost gotten us into 5 accidents.
His jobs never lasted more than 3 months. He lost one for disappearing for hours at a time at work, and another for taking vicodin.
What do I need to do to ensure the safety of my son? His father is not mentally capable of taking care of him, whenever I have asked him to watch him, he just sits there. He will let him cry until I come in- then he gets him, acting like he was going to do it before. I asked him to get our son away from the curtains (my hands were full) because he was pulling them down- and he just sat there.
I have tried talking to him (it has been almost 2 years of talking) and I constantly have to remind him to bathe, pick up after himself, etc.
He keeps telling me he will change, does for a week, then goes back to the same old crap.
Main question is; Can he legally take him if I kick him out?
I told my boyfriend that if he did not start getting his stuff together, I will kick him out. We have a baby, 11 months old, and he told me that if I left him- he would take him with him when he goes. He has NO stable place to stay, His father has NEVER met our child, and I don't want him to because of his anger issues. My boyfriend would more than likely go there- but he has no crib for him, no food, no nothing. My family paid for everything for him.
Can he legally take him? His name is on the birth certificate, but our son has been living with us in the same house since he was born. Wouldn't taking him from the place he feels safe and secure cause emotional damage? His father is hardly around (He currently has a job) and when he is he pays NO attention to him whatsoever. I do the feeding, diapers, play time, baths, put him to bed, get up with him every morning, every thing. His father stays up till 6am looking at pictures/games on his phone, watching TV, or playing video games, and NEVER wakes up when our son cries. He has severe anger issues, and when he is angry he drives WAY too fast, he has almost gotten us into 5 accidents.
His jobs never lasted more than 3 months. He lost one for disappearing for hours at a time at work, and another for taking vicodin.
What do I need to do to ensure the safety of my son? His father is not mentally capable of taking care of him, whenever I have asked him to watch him, he just sits there. He will let him cry until I come in- then he gets him, acting like he was going to do it before. I asked him to get our son away from the curtains (my hands were full) because he was pulling them down- and he just sat there.
I have tried talking to him (it has been almost 2 years of talking) and I constantly have to remind him to bathe, pick up after himself, etc.
He keeps telling me he will change, does for a week, then goes back to the same old crap.
Main question is; Can he legally take him if I kick him out?