We have been married 21years we have a 20year old son. I want to be loved and touched and told that I mean something to him. He makes me feel he's not attracted to me anymore. He can say about other women being pretty but he can't say that about me. I feel so ugly. I need to feel good again and I don't know how.

So have you talked to him about this ? Have you tried counseling to help in communication.

Have you , if it really is a issue, looked at the type of clothes you wear, the way you wear your hair, and make up. A change in those can make someone look like a new person.