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LoveHurts10
Feb 25, 2007, 10:22 PM
My boyfriend of a year broke up with because he said I am too good for him, and he wants to be on his own, doesn't want a relationship right now, wants to be free and single. I love him a lot, and he said I am great and wonderful and so was our relationship, but since I moved back home last Month, he doesn't call. I am worried he will forget about me! What to do?

chuff
Feb 26, 2007, 02:01 AM
Well you have to start making a life for yourself without him in it. You have to start doing some the things that interest you and do them for yourself and your personal enjoyment. I also recommend exercising because you feel better and you get focuses on what your doing. Above all stay busy.

rol
Feb 26, 2007, 03:16 AM
As Chuff says now is the time to focus on YOU.
As you begin your single life, don't be readily available to pick up the phone when he calls, or even to return his call if he leaves a message. Put it in your mind that this is going to be a time for you to get grounded and live your life any way you want w/o having to answer to anyone.

Above all do not call him or act needy! Let him wonder instead.

talaniman
Feb 26, 2007, 05:46 AM
Very simple and excellent advice from people who are going through the same thing you are. Accept that you are single, and FREE to make yourself happy without him.