I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17... I want to take control of my boyfriend. Like I want to be the boss in the relationship... How do I do it... Like how do I control him?

Control him how?

Who will control you?

You can only control yourself. If you try to control your boyfriend, you won't have him very long.

Controlling relationships don't work.

Believe me you want a neutral relationship, no one controlling no one is the best way forward, if you need to ask the question How do I control him? It sounds to me like you haven't got the personality to do so, in the sense that you are not the type to control someone.