Let me start by saying I'm not a gold digger... I was in a relationship with this guy for 4 months and I was attracted to him at one point, but then that fact that he was short got to me and I wasn't attracted to him nomore. Then we started arguin a lot and that messed stuff up and from there everything went down hill. He's been asking me to be his girlfriend again but I wouldn't even give him the time of day. So he just got his permit and his car and he told me. Now I want to be his girl again and it's weird because I feel more attracted to what he has and the things he can get me than him his self and I don't mean to it's how it is. I think he maybe thinks that's all I want him for. Buh really he's the best boyfriend I had despite the arguing. Now that he thinks that maybe that's all I want from him it seems like he doesn't want to be with me... So how do I get him to be with me without seeming desprit ?

You said it yourself... you are more attracted to what he has and what he can give you than you are to him as a person. Do him, and yourself, a favor and let him go. That way he can be free to find someone who really wants to be with him for who he is, and you can be free to find someone who is even more of what you are looking for.

There plenty of guys with a car... Let him be he deserves someone that loves him and please rethink your priorities.

Highly agree with you LostGirl, he truly does deserve someone that loves him for him.

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You have a very unhealthy attitud e about love and loyalty, and the others are right, leave the guy alone to have a chance at a fun healthy relationship, and not with someone YOU who is a user, confused, and just needs attention.