I've been wondering if things between me and my girlfriend aren't worth it anymore. We've been dating for 8 months now. We used to be close. She used to spend most weekends with me. Now I find myself wondering if she even wants to be with me. A month ago she refused to even hug me, let alone spend time with me, and started spending a lot of time with other guys.

We talked about it and she said she still wanted to be with me. The day after we talked I had a flight out to stay with some friends for a week. We didn't talk much when I was away, but since I've been back things were OK for a while, then I found out she was staying at a guys house for a couple of nights.. She didn't even tell me about it, I found out because I heard her talking about it.

Recently things have been on a down hill. I find myself fighting a losing battle. I want to believe that things are OK, but then last night she did it again. She stayed at the same guys house, she didn't even tell me. I don't know if I can trust her we haven't been intimate in about 4 months now, and that's kind of what started it all. I wasn't sure if everything was OK, now I'm worried if I can even trust her.?

Any advice or opinions would be appreciate

Guy, I have to tell you that you have a girl friend in name only(?), and things haven't been okay for months.

I dump females like this, and let her sleep where ever she wants as long as its not with me.

DISAPPEAR!! Have no more to do with this lying cheater who is making a chump of you!

I agree with Talaniman. She doesn't even deserve to be in your life. Its time to move on, forget about her and disappear and don't contact her anymore. She is playing with you. Move on.

Guy, I have to tell you that you have a girl friend in name only(?), and things haven't been okay for months.

I dump females like this, and let her sleep where ever she wants as long as its not with me.

DISAPPEAR!!! have no more to do with this lying cheater who is making a chump of you!

Thanks for your advice. I did exactly that I dumped her and at first I was down but as I begun to realize that I'm free and it's that realization of freedom that made me feel good about everything, to really make the most of my freedom I've planned a holiday with a few good friends.

Again thanks for your advice.

Good on mate,

She didn't sound like she was worth it, there's plenty more fish in the sea as the old saying goes.

:)

Thanks for your advice. i did exactly that i dumped her and at first i was down but as i begun to realize that I'm free and its that realization of freedom that made me feel good about everything, to really make the most of my freedom ive planned a holiday with a few good friends.

Again thanks for your advice.

Good for you. Now disappear from her life, and let her regret doing what she did by not talking to her and move on with your's.

Thanks everyone.