I am in the 9th grade and have been in love with this girl for almost a full year now. Me and her became really good friends a while back and after a while I started to like her more than just friends. I planned on having her over as just friends one night and I was going to tell her how I felt but the same night we were supposed to hang out one of my other really good friends asked her out and she said yes. She's liked this guy for a long time even after he's played her twice. Even though I knew she liked him I still told her that I liked her. And I don't know how to get over her because she's one of my bestfriends now and we txt every single day and if I just stop talking to her completely it might ruin our friendship. What do I do?

I am in the 9th grade and have been in love with this girl for almost a full year now. Me and her became really good friends a while back and after a while I started to like her more than just friends. I planned on having her over as just friends one night and I was going to tell her how I felt but the same night we were supposed to hang out one of my other really good friends asked her out and she said yes. She's liked this guy for a long time even after he's played her twice. Even though I knew she liked him I still told her that I liked her. And I don't know how to get over her because she's one of my bestfriends now and we txt every single day and if I just stop talking to her completely it might ruin our friendship. What do I do?

Best thing you can do is give her some space to find out what she needs to know about this guy (if he's a player she'll find out) - -you can be her friend and give her advice but you can't make her have more than feelings of friendship for you if she doesn't want to at this time. -- At your age, things can change and evolve though -- so you never know! In the meantime you should find some other activities (and girls to hang out with/be friends with) so that your friend isn't the only thing on your mind.