Hi members,

I have something nagging me at the back of my head. This is the seventh month since I last had sex with my wife yet we sleep in the same bed. My body is full of scratches from her whenever I request for sex. She is fond of going out and coming back late in the night and she does not want me to say any thing about it. Some times she sleeps out with impunity and she will never concede that mistake.

Can some one tell me what is she up to? Am waiting

Depends what nation or culture do you live in, in some you merely order her to do her "wifely" duty and have her beaten by the police if she refuses.

In American, you would try to go to counseling of file for divorce.

Hey, the way it sounds , its like she may be getting it from someone else.

However, try and talk to her. I know that sometimes when am with my boyfriend I do feel like I don't want to have sex. Its always on days and times when I feel like something is bothering me. Even touching sometimes feels terrible and I would just turn away. It does not have to be something that they have done.

In your case, I think its gone too far. Seven months is a long time and sleeping out without you knowing is wrong, even for the western world. She is your wife. If it was the other way round she would have been on your case and she would have accused you of cheating.

Instead of coming to a conclusion, just ask her and if she refuses to oblidge, call it quit. Let her go.

Is she holding something against you that you may not want to leave her? That may be another thing too.
If it is so, why don't try and come to an agreement and have an open marriage.