There's this guy that I really like. We've only just recently got to know each other. I'm 17 and still a virgin and I'd like to keep it this way. A few days ago this guy asked me round his house to revise. We attempted revision for 5 minutes then got bored and started messing around. Nothing really happen but we somehow ended up in bed spooning. He sends me good morning texts, rings me and he seems that he cares. But the other day he asked my friend what I think about him? And she replied: 'why do u want to know' and he said 'because I don't want her to get the wrong message'. Please guys, I really like him, but do you think he's having me on?

I've been talking to a guy, or shall I say man; and he was 22. After about a month of us speaking we decided to meet up, he lives around my area so I was cautious. Typing this down, it seems worst than it was actually was at the time. Anyhow, the guy picked me up in his car and we like drove in the forest (oh gosh this sounds worst than it was, yet again).. We stopped by a park and just chilled in the car etc. At one point he tried putting his arm around me and I sort of went stiff but let him do it anyway. And when I was talking at one point also, he kissed me. And from then he kept kissing me, I was only able to gasp for air a few times because it was that intense. Whilst kissing he started fumbling with me, touching my body underneath my clothes.. And then he slipped his hands on my lower side and began to rub and.. Overall what I'm trying to say is that he fingered me. I didn't do anything on him though. Its just that after we met he'd text me saying how much he likes me and that he'd see me on that night etc.. But he never made the effort and one day he stopped talking to me altogether. I'm still not sure what happened, but have I been used?

There appears to be some confusion here, would you please level with us and not try to deceive.

No you haven't been 'used' yet, but if he keeps 'leading you on' I am sure if he keeps on teasing you with his good intentions he will get what he wants and you will be none the wiser and will have lost what virginity you have.

Confusion? What do u mean by that?

In first post you are 17 and spooning with some guy.
In second you are 16 and telling a totally different story.

Confusing!

I don't think she is aware that her threads have been merged and they seem to be separate incidences. Maybe different guys. Well OP can you clear this up?

Confusion? What do u mean by that?

Your story changes quite often. That is the confusion. What do you think we are; we are able to merge all of your posts and see that you are telling different stories.

At 4:01 am this morning you posted that you were 17 and wondering about a guy you "spooned with" that you really liked. Nine minutes later you posted that you were 16 and had parked with a 22 yr old that you allowed to finger you.

These threads have been merged so what is the truth?