Me and my ex have been together for the most part of the last 6 years. But every time she has a problem she runs to her family and they tell her to leave me all I'm doing is draging her down and then she does. So now I have to work on getting her back again because her family does not like me one bit. I just got off surgery on my foot she left me about a month before I could return to work. I know she loves me and cares for me. I also know her family is stopping her from being with me. We have a son together and if she's at my house for more then a half hour her family digs into everything and asks here why she's still here and whatever else they ask her. If we want to spend time together I either have to go to her house or I have to hide her car at my place. I really love and care for her I also feel this is the right thing for the both of us. If I felt that anything wasn't right for us I wouldn't be trying to get her back. Her family also said I should have had a better job lined up for when I could go back to work. Well its kind of hard to find a job in a cast and can't drive. Her family leaned her towards leaving me and left me with all the bills in the house and not able to work at all. Like I said I know she loves me and cares for me because if she didn't she wouldn't tell me that she wants to be a happy family or wants to work it out none the talk to me and spend time together once and awhile. I have been told we will be together again it will just take time and we have to start over as friends and build a strong relationship. I just need to find out how to get her realize what her family is doing to her and to me. How do I do that without just telling her because I tried that already.