I am in love with punjabi gal and I am Jain marwadi and our both family members not ready to accept our relation. Since I can't live without my family and her too I have decided to die and hoping to be with her in my next birth I know it's a joke and so this is wAt I can think of...
WAt I think is I took birth at a very bad generation time and utterly a wrong house and culture and Caste... If I would have born in some other caste and in low level not much reputated family my relation with ve been accepted but sadly it's not the story and so willing to die no other option left and also my family want ki I should die rather bringing curse to their reputation
WAt I think is god made men and women to love each other so humans made caste system and broke the god rule hate this caste system

No don't about two years ago I felt the same way and didn't think I could make anything out of my life but now I have a new girlfriend and slot more going for me, I know it's hard but "if you don't try to be happy you won't be happy" and as for the girl you should just be good friends sometimes that's just as good and sometimes better.

Did you just say that your family wants you to die rather than destroy their reputation?
Well shame on your family.
Yes, I agree with you that the caste system is no longer good for what it originally was intended. The young person of today has much more 'social mobility' as they go to university and get good jobs and make more money, regardless of background. It's a whole new world. If you and the woman you love can afford to go out on your own, then do so, and your families may outcast you at first but they will miss you and want you back. If they don't, then so be it.