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Joym526
May 4, 2012, 10:10 PM
I recently reunited on Facebook with a guy I went to high school with. He said he was seeing someone but it didn't work out. After talking for about a month I let him come over to my house where we had sex ( I know... Bad move). I usually don't do this type of thing but I figured since we had history together and we talked for about a month he wasn't a jerk.

Wrong on my part. He's been over to my house twice but Now we rarely talk on the phone we text most of the time but as of lately he doesn't try to get in contact with me at all. He doesn't come see me often as he says he's very busy with school n working. I go for weeks now without hearing from him unless I text him to say hi.

I'm not an idiot I know he's not really into me because when a man is he shows it and he basically got what he wanted but my question is should I delete him from my Facebook. I want to delete him so I can easily forget about him because I really did start liking him but I don't want him to think I'm harboring any ill feelings and don't want to appear juvie. I really just would like to just forget about him.

Thanks in advance for your advice

MeganMoo13
May 5, 2012, 09:21 AM
If I were you, I would delete him and just move on but I guess its up to you, if you don't want him to see there are bad feelign there, but then, what can he expect, doing that to you? Personally, I wouldn't care what he thinks, I would delete and move on.

Good luck

4mbermil
May 5, 2012, 09:28 AM
You could delete him, but also if you don't want him to see that you delete him, you could also just change your privacy settings so that he will not be able to see any status updates your post, pictures, etc.

Fr_Chuck
May 5, 2012, 10:00 AM
Delete him from face book, don't open his email, don't read his text and move on.

You were a fun sex or perhaps not so fun sex since he is not coming back. But anyway, it is over, he got what he wanted and you need to just go on.

odinn7
May 5, 2012, 10:12 AM
Delete him. Why, at this point, are you concerned if he thinks you're 'harboring any ill feelings"? Who cares? And really... you should be harboring ill feelings... he sounds like a jerk.

Delete him.

joypulv
May 5, 2012, 10:12 AM
Only only know what went on and what he's like. You could message him just before you delete him and say 'It's kind of painful for me to keep you on my friends list because I was liking you, so it's better this way.'

Joym526
May 5, 2012, 12:59 PM
Thanks everyone or the advice. He's a jerk... deleting him ASAP!

talaniman
May 5, 2012, 02:29 PM
GREAT move!

kdola
May 5, 2012, 03:25 PM
If I were u delete him he is obivioulsy just using you for sex