glassbird
May 4, 2012, 07:53 PM
How does one go about requesting the NH Supreme Court to take a second look at a custody case? My brother understands that he has a very limited amount of time to request an appeal, but he cannot figure out how to even start the process. What forms does he need, and where does he get them? What costs are involved? He had a lawyer during the divorce/custody process but he has “used up” his retainer, and cannot pay anything more to get this information from the lawyer. (He will have to represent himself.) He and I have searched all over the internet trying to figure this out.
If you need more details, here they are… As my brother describes it, he “brought a dove to a gun fight”. He tried to be a civilized adult through the whole divorce/custody process, and he lost everything. My faith in the legal system has been badly damaged watching what has happened to him, and I am now trying to help him save something from this train wreck.
Most of the problems resulted from the “guardian ad litum” who was assigned to “protect” the interests of their daughter. My brother was open and honest with her and answered every question she put to him. He believed that this person was an experienced professional, who would keep an open mind and truly do what was best for the child. He was wildly mistaken in this belief, however, and is now paying for it. I will come back to the guardian ad litum in a moment.
The divorce had been fairly straightforward until my ex-sister-in-law realized that my brother was not going to willingly let their child be removed from the town where she was born and raised. Specifically, he did not want her to have to change schools, and move in with the “other” grandparents an hour away from him. When his ex-wife realized that he was not going to give in on this, she suddenly claimed that he was a long-time abusive drunk…and had him kicked out of their home. She took out a restraining order on him, too. He knew this was all a legal maneuver to try to force him to let their daughter be moved away, but it still hurt and surprised him. It shocked the heck out of me…but I never thought that anyone would actually BELIEVE any of it. The timing was too convenient, and she had absolutely NO proof of anything. The police had never been to their house, she had never reported any abuse to anyone, he has never been pulled over drunk, etc.
This is where the guardian at litum comes in. She chose to believe everything that my ex-sister-in-law told her, as gospel, apparently. She also chose to disbelieve every word out of my brother’s mouth. My brother urged her to interview all their neighbors and mutual friends, which she did, and nothing that anyone said swayed her at all. She had made up her mind early on, and that was that. The guardian went into court and portrayed my brother as a violent, drunk, monster. Her testimony, combined with a very savvy lawyer hired by his former in-laws (and outright lies from his former wife), did the job…and my brother lost all custody of their daughter. He has no say in her life at all, and she has been moved out of town and an hour away…just as fast as my ex-sister-in-law could do it.
By appealing to the Supreme Court, my brother is hoping for the chance to present his side of the story. He has been unable to tell anyone the facts or show his proof that he is not the monster that he has been depicted as. He wants SOMEONE to acknowledge the fact that the guardian ad litum has judged him based only on the say-so of his ex-wife and has ignored everything else. He has gone from being a very involved and loving parent to being a brief weekly blip in his daughters life…and he has to drive 4 hours a week to go get her and bring her back to do even that!
There is more, so much more, but I think you get the gist of it. Thank you for reading all this, and I welcome any thoughts anyone might have. Especially on how he can get an appeal going, and represent himself.
If you need more details, here they are… As my brother describes it, he “brought a dove to a gun fight”. He tried to be a civilized adult through the whole divorce/custody process, and he lost everything. My faith in the legal system has been badly damaged watching what has happened to him, and I am now trying to help him save something from this train wreck.
Most of the problems resulted from the “guardian ad litum” who was assigned to “protect” the interests of their daughter. My brother was open and honest with her and answered every question she put to him. He believed that this person was an experienced professional, who would keep an open mind and truly do what was best for the child. He was wildly mistaken in this belief, however, and is now paying for it. I will come back to the guardian ad litum in a moment.
The divorce had been fairly straightforward until my ex-sister-in-law realized that my brother was not going to willingly let their child be removed from the town where she was born and raised. Specifically, he did not want her to have to change schools, and move in with the “other” grandparents an hour away from him. When his ex-wife realized that he was not going to give in on this, she suddenly claimed that he was a long-time abusive drunk…and had him kicked out of their home. She took out a restraining order on him, too. He knew this was all a legal maneuver to try to force him to let their daughter be moved away, but it still hurt and surprised him. It shocked the heck out of me…but I never thought that anyone would actually BELIEVE any of it. The timing was too convenient, and she had absolutely NO proof of anything. The police had never been to their house, she had never reported any abuse to anyone, he has never been pulled over drunk, etc.
This is where the guardian at litum comes in. She chose to believe everything that my ex-sister-in-law told her, as gospel, apparently. She also chose to disbelieve every word out of my brother’s mouth. My brother urged her to interview all their neighbors and mutual friends, which she did, and nothing that anyone said swayed her at all. She had made up her mind early on, and that was that. The guardian went into court and portrayed my brother as a violent, drunk, monster. Her testimony, combined with a very savvy lawyer hired by his former in-laws (and outright lies from his former wife), did the job…and my brother lost all custody of their daughter. He has no say in her life at all, and she has been moved out of town and an hour away…just as fast as my ex-sister-in-law could do it.
By appealing to the Supreme Court, my brother is hoping for the chance to present his side of the story. He has been unable to tell anyone the facts or show his proof that he is not the monster that he has been depicted as. He wants SOMEONE to acknowledge the fact that the guardian ad litum has judged him based only on the say-so of his ex-wife and has ignored everything else. He has gone from being a very involved and loving parent to being a brief weekly blip in his daughters life…and he has to drive 4 hours a week to go get her and bring her back to do even that!
There is more, so much more, but I think you get the gist of it. Thank you for reading all this, and I welcome any thoughts anyone might have. Especially on how he can get an appeal going, and represent himself.