Unprotected sex around xmas and new years eve with ex... protected sex jan2 2012 with male friend... confused on the father.. very stressed...

Sorry , but you will have to run a DNA paternity test AFTER the birth to find out who the father is.

No need to be stressed, you had sex with both, so you assumed you could become pregnant by either. By protection, I will assume a condom, since if you were on birth control it would still be in effect. Condoms have a high rate of failure, so you can not rule out either men.

So you have the child, and when the child is born you do a DNA test to be sure.

It's equally possible that either man could be the father. You could have sex, not ovulate for three days and still become pregnant. There are simply too many variables, so its true you can't even make a good guess without a DNA test.

When is your due date?