milldirk
May 3, 2012, 07:11 AM
Hello, I am looking for a bit of advice regarding my wife (soon to be ex) and was wondering if you could help me.
My wife left our home, myself and the 3 children in November.
She will not speak with me therefore I am having to text (making things sound ten times worse).
She is classing the text as harassment even though I only send them when she upsets & annoys the children after they have visited her & also as I needed answers. She ignores the text making things worse so I end up telling her what I think of her. The texts have stopped though as I have constantly asked her if we could make a effort and get on for the children's sakes.
When we do see each other in person, the way she speaks towards me is the same as my text messages, I don't have proof though as it's only face to face.
When we speak she is histerical & I think she needs help.
She is constantly threatening me with court with no ammunition.
I saw her last night in the local garage, she was with our son & I with our daughter. I asked her to stop hurting people as she has asked for a divorce on the grounds of adultery, even though I met my last girlfriend (now ex), 5 months after she left me. I am trying to point out to her there is no need to hurt other people as the woman was devastated. If there is any camera's in the garage (gwalia, caeathro), it will show her coming up to my car then me trying to talk to her outside the garage door asking her not to do this in front of the kids & that I will agree to divorce. It would also show her becoming histerical & driving away like a lunatic with our son in the car.
She has threatened me with blackmail as I had the burden of keeping a secret for her from the kids for years & after she left I wanted it out in the open as it hurt too much. I asked that she tell the kids before I do. Now she is classing this as blackmail.
I am having high blood pressure and have been to doctors regarding this, 140 over 100, due to the stress of the last 6 months she has given me.
I am asking is there any way she can be kept away from me or warned by the police to stay away from me as she is causing too much heart ache to myself and the children.
Can I get a injunction on her or could she on me for the text messages & making out I am harassing here? (which I'm not, just asking for a peaceful life)
I hope to hear back from you soon.
Many thanks, Mr mill.
My wife left our home, myself and the 3 children in November.
She will not speak with me therefore I am having to text (making things sound ten times worse).
She is classing the text as harassment even though I only send them when she upsets & annoys the children after they have visited her & also as I needed answers. She ignores the text making things worse so I end up telling her what I think of her. The texts have stopped though as I have constantly asked her if we could make a effort and get on for the children's sakes.
When we do see each other in person, the way she speaks towards me is the same as my text messages, I don't have proof though as it's only face to face.
When we speak she is histerical & I think she needs help.
She is constantly threatening me with court with no ammunition.
I saw her last night in the local garage, she was with our son & I with our daughter. I asked her to stop hurting people as she has asked for a divorce on the grounds of adultery, even though I met my last girlfriend (now ex), 5 months after she left me. I am trying to point out to her there is no need to hurt other people as the woman was devastated. If there is any camera's in the garage (gwalia, caeathro), it will show her coming up to my car then me trying to talk to her outside the garage door asking her not to do this in front of the kids & that I will agree to divorce. It would also show her becoming histerical & driving away like a lunatic with our son in the car.
She has threatened me with blackmail as I had the burden of keeping a secret for her from the kids for years & after she left I wanted it out in the open as it hurt too much. I asked that she tell the kids before I do. Now she is classing this as blackmail.
I am having high blood pressure and have been to doctors regarding this, 140 over 100, due to the stress of the last 6 months she has given me.
I am asking is there any way she can be kept away from me or warned by the police to stay away from me as she is causing too much heart ache to myself and the children.
Can I get a injunction on her or could she on me for the text messages & making out I am harassing here? (which I'm not, just asking for a peaceful life)
I hope to hear back from you soon.
Many thanks, Mr mill.