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lauravc29
May 2, 2012, 01:42 PM
I have a boyfriend, I'm about to have 5 months with him. Hes really sweet and he really loves me. All his friends tell me that I'm all he talks about. And even though we don't go to the same school, or see each other a lot, he picks me up everyday to make sure he sees me.

But I can't be myself around him, and its just awkward with him. But I met another guy at my school who I can be myself around, and I like him, and he likes me too but he's my friend's ex.

My friend is in a relationship right now, and is really in love with the guy, so I don't think she would have a problem with me going out with him.

But I don't want to leave my boyfriend that is really in love with me. ADVICE?

mmresd
May 2, 2012, 03:30 PM
If your boyfriend is really in love with you and you are not, then the best thing to do is to break up, he'll get over it, you are only making it worse by sticking around feeding him false hope. Pursue what you actually want, maybe just date, no need to be in a committed situation if you are still experiencing different things.

talaniman
May 2, 2012, 07:14 PM
Well you can't have two boyfriends and if you cannot leave the boyfriend, then stop things with the friends ex, OR dump the BF, and chase the friends ex, OR be honest and be single, and date them all.

Let honesty, and good behavior lead you to a good decision.