I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I are sexuAlly active and have been for about 5 months but I am on the pill and he always wears a condom all last month I've been having weird things happen and now my period accordin to my pack of pills was supposed to come last week bu it didn't so we had sex Friday 2 days ago then yesterday I finally got what I think might be my period but I don know its like the lightest period I've ever had at first it starts with a light to dark brown orangish and barely anything and now it's little drips of blood but there's not even really a dot in my pad for the whole day I'm kind of worries and I know that can effect my period too but I just am worried and don't know If I'm worries about nothing or if I should take a test I don't know help please!

Of course many women get pregnant on birth control and using condoms, while it is much harder to get pregnant, it is very possible. Remember birth control only reduces the chance and it does not completely stop it from happening.

This is a possible sign of it, Perhaps you may want to even wait and see what next months period does, if it comes no issue, if no period, then test. Or wait about two weeks and try a test using first urine of the morning.

Thank you!! If the blood starts getting darker though could it still be my period and is it okay to still keep taking my birth control? Could I take a test like at the en of this week? My boyfriend and I want to take it together n I don't get to see him much Cept the weekends

Can sperm go through shorts and underwear can people get pregnant from dry humping if per ejaculate soaks through shorts

Yes, sperm can go through clothing, which is why condoms aren't made of cloth.

It's unlikely that the female would get pregnant if you didn't penetrate, and you were fully clothed, but, it's not impossible. Still, you'd have a better chance winning the lottery.

But again, someone has to win the lottery. If you don't want to win the pregnancy lottery, I suggest you play a bit safer. By safer, I mean condoms, or the pill. Both is better. But, I have to warn you, even if she's on the pill and you use a condom, if you two have sex, pregnancy is still possible.

The only way for the two of you to avoid pregnancy 100% is to not have sex, and to stop playing adult games you're not ready for.

Good luck.

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I just read your other thread. Doesn't sound like you were only dry humping. Do you want to change your story?

We can only offer advice on the facts. If you're not telling us everything, and not being completely honest, then you're not getting advice, you're only fooling yourself. If that's what you want to do, that's fine, it won't have any effect on any of us. But, if you actually want legitimate advice, you'll have to tell the whole story, and be 100% honest.

So which is it? Are you sexually active, or just dry humping fully clothed?

Threads merged to give proper question content

Both we are sexually active but before this last Friday we hadn't had sex for almost a month I was just curious if it could be possible that that could have been a problem or if that could be the cause or if it really was sex I'm just looking for answers no need to give me some kind of talk on the truth I'm a very truthful person

Both we are sexually active but befor this last Friday we hadn't had sex for almost a month I was just curious if it could be possible that that could have been a problem or if that could be the cause or if it really was sex I'm just looking for answers no need to give me some kind of talk on the truth I'm a very truthful person

If it's both, that's fine. But in one thread (question) you said you were sexually active, in the other you made it sound like you were just dry humping, and that sex wasn't involved. If you can't see how the answers may be different from one to the other, then you need to re-take sex education.

The fact is, you're sexually active. Even with protection pregnancy is possible. So, if your period is late, or not normal, pregnancy is a concern. Sadly, there's really nothing you can do but wait and see.

And to answer your question, yes, dry humping (and it's really not dry humping if he ejaculates) can cause pregnancy. It's a small chance, but there is a chance. Any time sperm gets near the vagina, pregnancy is possible.

That's what I thought but he said no so we were just wondering I didn't mean to make it sound like that I'm very skilled in many aspects of education including sex Ed I'm not an idiot because you assumed something I knew what I was asking and I know what can cause pregnancy the first post was asking to confirm what I knew that's all so I'd appreciate you not trying I act like my parent and like you know my situation and like I've done something wrong I've graduated early am already starting college classes and have a steady job at 17 which is more then what most adults can say

That's what I thought but he said no so we were just wondering I didn't mean to make it sound like that I'm very skilled in many aspects of education including sex Ed I'm not an idiot because you assumed something I knew what I was asking and I know what can cause pregnancy the first post was asking to confirm what I knew that's all so I'd appreciate you not trying I act like my parent and like you know my situation and like I've done something wrong I've graduated early am already starting college classes and have a steady job at 17 which is more then what most adults can say

I never treated you like an idiot, I answered your question. If you already knew the answer, then why ask it? Should I have sugar coated it to make you feel smarter?

I'm glad you're smart. You'll need to be if you're going to be a 17 year old mom. Those are the facts, like them or not.

You may be a brilliant teen, but I've lived through my teen years, and I am a mom. I'm a college graduate, and I've been working since I was 13 years old. Do you really want to play the "who's smarter" game, because at 17, I can tell you, you won't win, no matter how brilliant you are.

Yes, now I'm talking down to you, because you're acting like a child. If you think I'm going to take lip from a child that's only 3 years older than my son, you can guess again.

I'll unsubscribe from this thread, wish you luck (and I'm being sincere), and I'll hope that you're as smart as you say you are, and realize that sex, even protected, can result in pregnancy, so don't assume it won't happen to you because you're using protection. No form of birth control is 100%, but I bet you already know that, right?

Good luck.

I do know that thanks :) bye damn