My fiancé ejaculated on my stomach for the past three days and I've been inserting his semen in my vagina with my fingers (all three times). What are my chances of getting pregnant?

I would say they are fair - what is his purpose? Or yours, for that matter?

Is there some sort of virginity question here? Something else?

I've heard of insemination using a turkey baster but never this way!

How quickly do you do that? Contamination may occur and that would reduce the chances. I would say chances are 40%. Why don't you do it the normal way; does he not want you to get pregnant? I for one think it is really crass to ejaculate on a woman's stomach, (then they roll over groaning) it shows disrespect.

Penetration hurts me, and he understands that. He's a loving man. We both decided on having a baby together. And we do this as soon as he ejaculates. Instantly. We just don't want to got hrew all the IVF, and having a doctor help us. We're a bit embarrassed.

Have you been to the doctor over the penetration issues ?

Yes, they say its in the mind. I tighten up the muscles because I automatically feel the pain. I just need to find ways to relax and make it more enjoyable to me. Im grateful to find my fiancée who completely understands and tries to help me. We just really want a baby and are trying new ways. We just want to know the chances on having a bundle of joy this way.

How are you going to handle the pain when that baby wants to get out into the world?

Being that I have permanent screws on my left hip disk I would automatically have to get a c-section. So yea, I am.

Have you already arranged for this c-section?

Being that I have permanent screws on my left hip disk I would automatically have to get a c-section. So yea, I am.


I definitely would not count on this scenario.

Your boyfriend is happy with your sex life?