So if I do have a EtG test 43 hours after having three bacardi shots and one light beer and drank 6 glasses of water in between from 7 to 11 pm what r my chances of passing 5 ft 34 yr old female

You are right in the middle when it comes to EtG elimination. The range would be from 25-48 hours. There is no method to precisely predict EtG/EtS creation or elimination.

At 4 standard drinks, you are in the range where there may still be detectable EtG.

Yes I passed