Ive been married for more than 3 years.things didn't go well from the beginning with him being depressed and out of work for almost 2 years.didnt want to leave him then because I thought any good wife will stand by her husband in hard times.things got better for him but not for us.its like I didn't existed in his life anymore or I was just a housemate that he occasionally kisses.hardly any physical contact was made in the years since we are married.ive left him now but didn't divorce as divorce in my country takes 4 years.he keeps texting me that he won't chase after me and he will never beg for my love or for me to come back home.I know he s very upset now and I've given him a proper shock but I also believe that he will not fight for me,or us.its heartbreaking to realize that the man that you love so much is not willing to fight for you.thanks

If he said that I would wait the 4 years. Good luck be strong