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lmea78
Apr 24, 2012, 10:36 AM
I have no idea on how to go with the huy I'm dating, we've been dating for a couple weeks... I'm 33, he's 32.

He seems to be the perfect catch... he is professional, has a stable job, is funny, nice guy, really...

The thing is: I have no idea how to handle this, I had so many bad experiences in my past and I said that to him already, he even knows I can't have sex because I had a surgery on my uterus... he's still texting me, we just kiss and touch but not too much, not too aggressive... ok, so I feel really tired of men but I still have the hope I will find my other half... I just want to stop thinking if I'm stupid when I'm with him, if someday I had a bad breath or if I made too many jokes or if I was too crazy or if he calls or not... I am trying to focus on my life, which is great! But! I wish I could really be VERY SMART to catch him or simply he's not for me...

Should I stop worrying too much and start living my life and just let it flow?
Well, I just have to remember I'm 33, I'm not a teenager anymore but still want to do things right so I don't regret later... mmmmm

Homegirl 50
Apr 26, 2012, 03:30 AM
Take a deep breath and slow down. That this thing slow. You are just seeing each other not getting engaged and it's only been two weeks. Take it one day at a time. Stop worrying about little things.

lmea78
May 6, 2012, 09:40 PM
Take a deep breath and slow down. That this thing slow. You are just seeing each other not getting engaged and it's only been two weeks. Take it one day at a time. Stop worrying about little things.

Yes, you're very right!.