Gabriella1152
Apr 23, 2012, 06:05 AM
Ok I am so stressed out an confused I would really love someone to help shed some light on the situation.. I cannot go to family And friends... So here it goes...
I'm a 20 yr old girl.. My partner is some what older than myself... He is 32.. When he was 19 he found out he was going to become a father.. He wasn't seeing the girl but she went along with the preganancy. Therefore there is only 6 years age gap between myself and her.
We've been seeing each other for 12 months n only recbtoy has his daughter been involved in out relationship. I'd say 9months into our relationship we were introduced.. But n saying that he'd spent the day with her twice since we've been together..
Now we get along good I guess because it wasnttoo long ago I was her age.. About the third time I'd been around them both we spent the Sunday together, we watched a movie and all she wanted to do was spoon her dad, she would grab his arm n put it on her waist n I started to feel uncomfortable.. ( Keeping in mind she is a fully developed girl, large breasts say c-cup) anyway I put it out of my mind.. Until the next meeting when she was leaving she hugged him and pulled him onto the lounge for about five minutes.. These are just a few examples.. I told him I felt uncomfortable and he responded with "I hardly get to see he so I guess she wants to make up for lost time" I was happy without response; until I thought back to that age n thought there is no way I would ask my dad to spoon me^^ while we watch a movie..
We too a holiday to the beach and again we were watching a movie and she laid in front of him asked himto spoon her and grabbed his arm and put it underneath her breasts.. He removed it because he obviously knew it was wrong.. An hr later we went to the beach and once in the water she wouldn't get off him, wrapping her legs around his waist.
I felt so uncomfortable and I don't know what to do.. Am I thinking like this because we are so close in age or do u agree with me^^ it's weird? I just don't know many girls that age that would be like this with their father? Please give me it insight?
I'm a 20 yr old girl.. My partner is some what older than myself... He is 32.. When he was 19 he found out he was going to become a father.. He wasn't seeing the girl but she went along with the preganancy. Therefore there is only 6 years age gap between myself and her.
We've been seeing each other for 12 months n only recbtoy has his daughter been involved in out relationship. I'd say 9months into our relationship we were introduced.. But n saying that he'd spent the day with her twice since we've been together..
Now we get along good I guess because it wasnttoo long ago I was her age.. About the third time I'd been around them both we spent the Sunday together, we watched a movie and all she wanted to do was spoon her dad, she would grab his arm n put it on her waist n I started to feel uncomfortable.. ( Keeping in mind she is a fully developed girl, large breasts say c-cup) anyway I put it out of my mind.. Until the next meeting when she was leaving she hugged him and pulled him onto the lounge for about five minutes.. These are just a few examples.. I told him I felt uncomfortable and he responded with "I hardly get to see he so I guess she wants to make up for lost time" I was happy without response; until I thought back to that age n thought there is no way I would ask my dad to spoon me^^ while we watch a movie..
We too a holiday to the beach and again we were watching a movie and she laid in front of him asked himto spoon her and grabbed his arm and put it underneath her breasts.. He removed it because he obviously knew it was wrong.. An hr later we went to the beach and once in the water she wouldn't get off him, wrapping her legs around his waist.
I felt so uncomfortable and I don't know what to do.. Am I thinking like this because we are so close in age or do u agree with me^^ it's weird? I just don't know many girls that age that would be like this with their father? Please give me it insight?