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NickiJordan16
Apr 22, 2012, 11:59 AM
I want to have sex, but then I don't because I've seen what could happen and I don't want that to happen to me but the other side of me wonders... Am I wrong for thinking about this :/ ?

LostPerson987
Apr 22, 2012, 12:02 PM
NO!
Everyone thinks about sex and if they say they don't then they are lying.
You just want to make sure if you do actually do it you need to make sure you are mature enough and that it's for the right reasons.

Don't have sex with someone you don't really know just because. It needs to be with someone you actually love and that you can picture the rest of your life with. But you are not wrong for wondering about it.

Wondergirl
Apr 22, 2012, 12:10 PM
And remember, sex = baby. Are you emotionally mature enough, physically ready, have a great full-time job and savings in the bank and a good health insurance plan?

NickiJordan16
Apr 22, 2012, 12:13 PM
NO!
Everyone thinks about sex and if they say they don't then they are lying.
You just want to make sure if you do actually do it you need to make sure you are mature enough and that it's for the right reasons.

Don't have sex with someone you don't really know just because. It needs to be with someone you actually love and that you can picture the rest of your life with. But you are not wrong for wondering about it.

OK :D Thanks a million

NickiJordan16
Apr 22, 2012, 12:14 PM
And remember, sex = baby. Are you emotionally mature enough, physically ready, have a great full-time job and savings in the bank and a good health insurance plan?

Yeahh , I'm still in school so I guess not . Thank you

LostPerson987
Apr 22, 2012, 12:20 PM
And always use protection, if you don't think you should then you are not mature enough and are just preparing to be on the next 16 and pregnant season

Fr_Chuck
Apr 22, 2012, 12:22 PM
Thinking about it, perhaps masturbation is normal, control of your actions is the issue.