I have been married to my husband for 9 yrs. We have 3 amazing children 8 1/2, 6, and 6 weeks. He had an affair 8 yrs ago, and we worked through it. It was very tough, but we had (what I thought) was a strong and happy marriage. I recently found out that he has started having another affair. I do not think that I have it in me to fight for our marriage anymore. Plus, our children are old enough to see that something is not right. I believe the time has come for me and my children to leave, but I am a stay at home mother. I have no money, and no where to go. Other than getting my own savings/checking acct, I do not know what to do. Any advice would be helpful.
P.S. I have not told him that we are leaving, or that I even know about the affair.