IOnce upon a time I lived a wonderful life, had a decent job and family. But now it’s all taken away – my daughter, wife, wealth, job and even my dignity - the story’s too long to tell. Now I am facing jail term because my ex-wife had fabricated evidences against me. Imagine someone like me – a law abiding schoolteacher who never misses paying his bills, never had a parking ticket in his 50 years of living and who likes helping old folks crossing the street– and I’m going to prison! The prosecutor says he has ‘solid evidence’ against me and I will be locked away for good – whatever that means

What have I done to offend Big Sam or the Big Guy above him? If I did, then I apologize. At any event, enough is enough! I’m not going to accept this ! I have the right to decide if I should live or die. God with all his powers has decided that we should live but at what price? To endure sufferings day in and day out! I would accept his retribution if I am guilty of an offence or had committed unforgivable sins that warrants a punishment. But someone like me – a harmless, soft spoken, bespectacled, gentle, loyal, loving man who smiles at everyone and holds no vengeance against any living being is persecuted by god himself mercilessly. Call it back luck or whatever you want – but I challenge anyone to be in my shoes and see how long you’ll last.

I am now trying hard to end my life and I am giving myself a deadline of 2 months. If everything else failed I’ll jump from the highest building. Is there anyone out there who can advise me on the best way to end my life, and fast!

Divorce happens and ex wife's get evil at times. Things don't happen all of a sudden but often we close our eyes to what is happennig.

Of course the DA will say he has iron clad evidence, it is called lying, guess what they are allowed to. So what has your attorney said about it.

So you have to start life over, you are not the first one to reinvent who they are.

No, no one here can or will tell you the best or fastest way to end your life.

I don't know that you want advice but I'm going to give it anyway. I cannot imagine the situation BUT Prosecutors have been known to posture. I'd be interested in what your Attorney has to say about that.

At any rate - there are people who post here who are far more knowledgeable about these things than I am, who are trained and experienced counsellors, who have great insight. I'm just one person who had a hard time at one point and lived through, past and beyond it.

I also am not knowledgeable enough to argue religion (either God OR Big Sam OR the Big Guy). Perhaps someone else is -

Let's see if anyone else is signed on right now.

I know how you feel my friend. I also had a good life until one situation happened. I don't want to talk about the situation but it really turned my world upside down. Not just me, my whole family and it is because of me being stupid. Anyway, there is no day that I ask God, why didn't he just take me so I don't have to go through this suffering. I thought I am better of dead, in that way, I'll have peace. It's hard my friend. I guess what I'm saying is you're not alone living on this unfair world. Just hang on to life just like me, we need to endure no matter what. Life is not easy anymore. Don't give up.

Please tell us that you have engaged an attorney in your defense. This effort to destroy you and your good name makes me want to fight back, not to see you lie down and allow your ex-wife's steamroller to crush you.

Please tell us more of this story. What is her case against you? Let us help you organize your thoughts and your defense.

Motor,
I won't bore you with my story but allow me to say please, that I can relate too much of what you have posted here.
God or Sam or the BIg Guy is not against you, it only feels that way right now.
Fr Chuck makes a good point, these things don't happen suddenly, our eyes are closed.
When you've shared your life with someone you don't expect them to act this way. I certainly didn't. And got left with $30,000 of debt and part of that was IRS, and those guys don't play nice.
Uprooted my children and had to make it own my own with 2 kids and most of my paycheck going towards bills that were not even mine.
What made the situation so bad is that my children suffered, because I couldn't afford the things they wanted and sometimes the things they needed.
My point is I know how hopeless feels. I know how it feels to go to sleep and wish you never woke up.
But now my children are grown, I have a beautiful grandchild. And for the most part my debt is under control. It still gets tough, but we make it.
And I have a wonderful man in my life, I sure am glad that I woke up all those days.
Life is ever changing and sometimes we lose our way, that doesn't mean that the path isn't still there.
I do hope that you have good counsel/lawyer for your legal problem.

Keep us posted on how you are doing and best wishes to you