I am a Mother of 3 men. My middle Son has a baby on the way. My Son is not married but asked the Mother of his unborn child to marry him and gave he an engagement ring which she accepted excitedly. My Sons unborn baby is 13 weeks old. The Mother of his child has two other children, 2 Sons aged 5 and 9 years. To cut a very long story short, she cries constantly that my son does not love her after he has provided everything for her and the boys. He doesn't want to take over the father role but loves the boys and the mother of his unborn child very much. The youngest boy turned 5 yesterday and she smashed the boys beautiful beds and broke all of her 5 year old sons toy's that the poor little boy received as presents on his BIRTHDAY. Then she drank bleach on his birthday to hurt my Son because she said to my Son crying. My children don't want me they want you. My Son replied they love you so much. They are scared of you. Just love them. This is only bits and pieces of the story. I REALLY FEAR FOR MY UNBORN GRAND CHILD. MY sON HAS HAD TO LEAVE HER BECAUSE HE IS SCARED FOR LIFE. He also knows showing her 2 beautiful boys love he puts them in danger because she is so jealous of him loving or caring about anyone but HER. Any help or advice is appreciated.

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What he needs to do is make notes and monitor the situation. What the mother is doing is abuse at the highest level. He can call child protective services and have them investigate. Was she like this before becoming pregnant or this is something that has come on suddenly ?

... My Sons unborn baby is 13 weeks old. ...

Actually, your grandchild won't be 13 weeks old until 13 weeks after he or she is born. What you mean is that the baby-on-the-way was conceived 13 weeks ago.


... He doesn't want to take over the father role but loves the boys and the mother of his unborn child very much. ...

This is confusing. He has asked her to marry him but doesn't want to become the step-father of her present sons? Where is their father?