Ok me and my boyfriend of one year have a 3 month son and he has 3 little girls with his ex of 6 years well one day I went through his phone and saw text that they were sending each other he was telling her he wanted to see her and see her naked cause she told him she just got out the shower and that yea they should meet up I told him about it and he said it was a mistake he didn't do nothing with her it was just talk him flirting he promise he would never do it again but truth is I really don't believe it how do I know if his going to do it again

There are plenty of ways on how to know if he's going to do it again but you're still doubting him because he destroyed your trust and he disappointed you. Saying and promising that he won't do it again may not be to gain back your trust in him but it's a start. Communicate to him how you feel about it. Tell him that he needs to earn your trust not just by saying promises but by taking an extra mile to make you feel emotionally secured with him. The text was cheating and I don't know how you treat cheaters but it seems like you give away second chances easier than most people after a heartbreak.

Pay attention! You were pregnant for nine months out of the year you have known him and he is still in contact with his OTHER baby mama. You have nothing to base trust on. Protect you and your child, and please don't get pregnant again.

Sorry, like you, his other baby mama, are connected for a long time so he will have contact with her. Don't be silly and trust him to do the right thing, do it for yourself.

Pay attention! You were pregnant for nine months out of the year you have known him and he is still in contact with his OTHER baby mama. You have nothing to base trust on. Protect you and your child, and please don't get pregnant again.

Sorry, like you, his other baby mama, are connected for a long time so he will have contact with her. Don't be silly and trust him to do the right thing, do it for yourself.


Great catch on the timing. Yes, don't get pregnant again. How is this man supporting her children and the OTHER children?

I would not believe this is a one-time mistake, not at all.