I;m in a relationship of nearly a year. Its was all going well at first, but then my boyfriend added random girls onto his blackberry. At first he was telling them 'they were gorgeous' then it turned into a lot worse, asking for pictures of girls and sending them.

Its not just the once this has happened but a couple of times. Its hard to believe anything he says now. He says its like someone controlling him to do it, and he gets urges. I've given him so many chances, but am just scared he might do it again.

Obviously, if he's doing these things with more than one girl, you should get rid of him right now. Or, if you want to show him how it feels, start flirting with guys, and saying sexual things to them right in front of your boyfriend. Give him what he deserves. You deserve a lot better. So go get it.

If he does it again, dump him, and don't look back, and no more chances.