Im only 14 and I lost my virginity in December and I found a bump on my penis two days ago so that night I had researched about it and it had not been there before I know but when I researched about it said wait about two weeks and Im scared to tell my parents what should I do

Have you been having regular sex since December?

No

No none since then

December was four months ago. If you go to your doctor, can you be in the exam room alone, without a parent?

All right but should I wait

Are you worried about an STD?

If I were you, I would get that appointment soon because you are worried about it and will lose your mind if you don't find out if anything is wrong or not.

Tnk u

I'm a former teacher and a retired librarian and can't read texting. It's one of the rules of this site not to text.

Now, here's another lecture -- please be aware that, even if you and she use THREE forms of birth control, there is still a chance she can get pregnant, so nine months later, someone will be calling you "Daddy." If you are worried about your parents finding out about a bump on your penis, wait until they find out they are going to be grandparents!

Remember, sex = baby.

Save the sex for when you are financially and emotionally and physically able to have a child.

It was in December and honestly trust me there ain't no baby on the way I don't even talk to the girl snymore

I'm talking about ANY girl.

Please don't have sex again until you are ready to afford and care for a baby. If you think it won't happen to you, read the Pregnancy board on this site.

Well I would rather have a baby young towns tell my parents than tell them I have a std

And you can afford a baby.

That will mean no school beyond high school maybe and work at a boring, nothing job and no more hanging out with the guys.

Maybe less masturbation https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/masturbation-648308.html?

Its normal for someone your age to have your hormones raging. But this is also the time to learn self control.

Is it good that it has went down and I popped it